Sunday, August 9, 2009

36 weeks and 29 weeks

Last night, the Milz's and Matt and I watched Tim and Gundi's son, Daniel, while they enjoyed a dinner for two out in Zurich. While we were there, we decided to take a few comparative shots of Phil and I's bumps. She is 7 weeks behind me, so around 29 weeks. It's funny, because when I look at her I think she's showing quite a bit now and when I look at myself, I don't think I'm that big. But when you put us side by side you can really see a difference! Tim also thought he could get into the action, but his belly a little pathetic; too much biking I think.

Matt and test drove some more cars yesterday. We are leaning more towards a wagon/estate right now, but it's not something I'm very happy about. I'd much rather have an SUV, but the gas mileage is horrible and the back is too high for Tucker's arthritic hips. We also looked at some "multi-person vehicles" (read: MINI-VAN), but I don't think we are quite ready for that sort of car yet. Now we just have to find a model that looks sporty enough for me, drives well and has all the bells and whistles we want. Oh, and is within our price range. Car shopping is annoying here, because dealers carry hardly any stock, so finding a good bargain on a new car is next to impossible.

Wednesday, August 5, 2009

35w6d - Nursery Shots

As promised, here are some shots of the nursery. Matt did a fantastic job of putting everything together and managed to do so with only a few curse words. You can see the baby bay bed in the corner by the window. We'll move that into our room once little one is here and hopefully put the recliner in that corner. It gets a good amount of sunlight and the balcony overlooks our back garden and the farmers fields beyond. That peaceful view will hopefully come in handy when trying to deal with the endless crying sessions that I'm sure will come at some point.

Baby is still as active as ever and has developed a new trick of sticking it's head (at least that is what I think it is) further down into my pelvis and against my bladder. When it moves against my bladder it triggers the worst sensations. I would guess that it's slid further down into position and that is why I'm having these pains, which is a good thing, but it sure makes me uncomfortable!
It's not only the baby that is getting set for the final countdown. My body is also starting to do new and interesting things. I was getting ready for my nightly bath last night when I looked down and thought "What the hell is coming out of my nipple!?" Apparently my boobs are in 'warm up' mode as it seems that they are now secreting small amounts of colostrum. I just hope they don't get themselves too fired up before the big day as I don't want to have to start wearing nursing pads before I actually start nursing! My ankles have also taken on more of a constant swell over the last few weeks and I swear my usually comfortable flats are starting to pinch at the ankles. I am now turning into that giant pregnant lady, who waddles her way to the bathroom twenty times a day and grunts whenever she sits down or stands-up. :-(


Sunday, August 2, 2009

35 Weeks - Getting Bigger

We are one week closer to having our little one with us! This week, we had our final infant care course. Overall, I'm not sure we needed to do the course as most of what she taught I already knew. We did learn some tips particular to Switzerland - where to buy stuff and things like that. One of the things that surprised me was that our instructor said that my diet can go back to normal after I give birth, with just one exception of alcohol. I remember all you girls telling me I still had to watch what I ate just like during pregnancy? I think I need to do some further reading.
This weekend was Swiss National Day (think 4th of July), so we went to Tim and Gundi's for a BBQ last night. They are pretty convinced that we are going to have a boy based on the way I'm carrying. Maybe they will be right?!
I was very disappointed this week to find two stretch marks appearing on my lower tummy. They look like two lightening bolts, but I don't feel like much of a super hero. You can see from the photos that I am getting bigger. It seems like the bump is growing out horizontally - like a shelf. Even some of my pregnancy clothes aren't fitting any longer. :-(
Today, we washed all the baby's things and finished puting the nursery together. I know you will all want to see pictures, so I will have Matt take some later this week. We also bought some of the final things for the baby, including a diaper genie, room monitor and a baby bay. A baby bay is a half-moon shaped sort of crib that attaches to our bed so we can have the baby in our room with us early on - but on it's own bed. We decided that was safer and more convenient than a mose basket or travel bed.
We've also looked at flights to the US for Thanksgiving. Now that I have my new passport (and name) I can go ahead and book! Speaking of booking trips, Matt's got to go to Sweden 26 - 28 of August for work. I'm really hoping baby comes late, as there aren't 24-hour flights to Zurich.

Saturday, July 25, 2009

34 Weeks - She's a Thompson

Well, this was the week where I feel like I accomplished a lot. First off, before we left for Paris, I (finally) received notification that my Swiss residency permit was available for collection. Then, I received a call that my new US passport was available. So, now I am officially a Thompson. I am not sure what I will do at work in terms of changing my name, but at least I have all the needed documentation. Now I have to go about changing all my other stuff - drivers license, credit cards, bank accounts. And, Matt and I's birth certificates have arrived!

We also had another check-up with the doctor this week. I think she is a little surprised that I am still working full-time and even more surprised that I'm intending to do so right up until the due to date. She told us this last visit that she thinks I should keep working for about three more weeks, then call it quits. I had to laugh at that because I know I will definitely go crazy if I take off work three weeks before the baby is due. Don't get me wrong, if I start to feel tired or can't handle the full working days, I will be getting that doctor's note and cutting back. But I think just waiting around for the baby will drive me crazy.

She did another quick scan and measure of the baby and everything is absolutely normal. Baby is weighing in at 5.2lbs and all the measurements for it are still coming up right on average. Nice to know that she doesn't think I'll be delivering a big-headed, heavy baby! We also found out that the baby has moved over to the left side with it's head down (but not engaged yet), which means an even greater chance of delivering with the baby's back towards my stomach. Even so, I feel like the baby moves around a ton -it's probably changing positions every day! Matt and I have also enjoyed feeling the baby's hiccups. We noticed it last weekend in Paris for the first time and now feel them happening more often.

Doctor also took some more 3D scans of the baby. You can really see how our little one has fattened up!


Matt's brother, John is in town visiting for the weekend. Matt's had the poor guy mowing our lawn, putting up ceiling lights and lots of fun things like that. It's a great help, but I'm not sure he'll be jumping at the chance to come back and visit again soon! Tonight we're going to dinner in Zurich with Christian and Philippa.

Sunday, July 19, 2009

33 Weeks - Oui, Oui mon cheri!













Matt and I just returned home from having a weekend trip in Paris. It was our anniversary trip and also Matt's birthday. I just realized that Matt turned 33 on the same day that I was 33 weeks pregnant.

Paris is actually a great city to visit when you are nearly 8 months pregnant. We got a little bit of special treatment at some of the major sites. At the Eiffel Tower we were able to jump the cue to get down; at the Arc de Triomphe instead of taking the 284 stairs up to the top, we got to take a 10 second elevator. It was actually quite nice to have people notice and go out of their way to make it a little more comfortable for me.

We did have a good time playing tourist. Besides the Arc and the Eiffel, we also went to the Louvre - where we saw the Mona Lisa and the Venice de Milo among other well known pieces - the Notre Dame, Invalides (where Napoleon is buried) and lots of other neat stuff. The food was also pretty good, even if Matt ended up with a mild case of food poisoning. He tried escargot so maybe that was it. Nevertheless, he won't be trying them again. Baby seemed to enjoy Paris too. It wasn't the easiest walking around the city all day, but Matt was a very good husband and gave me lots of foot massages. Baby was full of lots of kicks and squirms - in fact - baby might have even flipped to the right side. At about four pounds now, I'm starting to really feel every movement.

We'll know for certain this week the position as we've got another appointment on Thursday. Matt's brother is also coming into town that day to visit for a few days. Just seven weeks to go!

Thursday, July 2, 2009

What a difference 25 weeks makes...

Well, tomorrow marks 31 weeks. Just 9 weeks to go until I officially hit "done" status. Just 6 weeks until I'm medically considered "full term". Thought you might get a kick of seeing the side by side of my 5w6d photo with the 30w6d photo.

I gotta say, I think I think I might be growing a baby in my bum too, cause it appears to have grown a bit since Jan-8th. I guess my excuse would be that I have a highly adaptive body which is desperately trying to counter-balance the increase in weight on the front with some increase in weight on the back? ;-)


Baby is turning into quite the kung-fu fighter and it's using my belly as it's dojo. I definitely don't mind it though - it's actually really reassuring. Matt has taken to resting his head on my belly and talking or humming to our little one. What is neat is that the baby reacts when it can hear Matt's voice - kung-fu fighting against Matt's head. :-)

We met this week with the agency that will be helping us locate a nanny. The good news is that they seem to have a pretty good qualified pool of candidates, so we should hopefully have no trouble finding someone for mid-January start. The Milz's were here too. We are really fortunate to have such close friends having a baby so close in time to us. Not only will baby have a playmate, we'll get a nanny a only a portion of the cost! I don't think we'd be able to afford one otherwise.

I also booked an appointment with the US Consulate in Zurich next week to start the process of changing my name. I've given up on waiting for my Swiss residency permit to come through first. We received the hospital entrance forms last week and need to fill them out and return them. I'm completing everything in "Thompson", so hopefully that doesn't cause problems and hopefully I get my passport in 20 days like it says on the State Depts website!

It's amazing the amount of paperwork we need to do to have a baby here. I am certainly not helping the situation by not having changed my name until now. But, because Matt and I are foreigners, we have to submit all sorts of stuff to the civil authorities in order to get a Swiss birth certificate issued. Then, to get passports for the baby (both British and US) we have to complete more paperwork! The only thing I can say is thank goodness for the Internet, because otherwise it'd be ten times the hassle.

Wednesday, June 24, 2009

29 Weeks - New Scan

Matt and I went to the doctors yesterday to have another growth scan. Everything is in order and baby is practically dead average in terms of growth charts. Baby is now weighing in at 1400gms or 3.08lbs.

Mommy however has gained 4.8lbs in two weeks! Means I need to watch those bowls of ice cream! Yesterday's weigh in a was a bit of a shock for me given that Doctor said I should be adding about 1lb a week. Guess I have to pay more attention to what I stuff in my mouth!

Baby is lying head down on my right side, which is good. It just means that as baby gets bigger it might run a little tight because it's competing with my liver for space where it's bum is currently. But all it has to do is basically roll to it's other side to get a little more room. Of course, there is still plenty of room for baby to completely flip around and end up in the breach position, but I am going to think positive and assume that it'll stay head down from here on out.
Here are two photos that the doctor took yesterday in 3D. Bit disappointed actually because she seemed in a hurry and didn't spend as much time with us on the ultrasound table as I would have liked. I think the baby has Matt's lips (and Brandy's nose??)! Baby kept sticking it's fingers into it's mouth while we were doing the ultrasound, which made it pretty hard to get a good full face shot - but at least it has 5 fingers on it's left hand! Definitely a Thompson with the way it avoids having it's photo taken!